Continuous Sexual Abuse of a Child

Signs of Childhood Sexual Abuse

Any sexual activity with a child (by an adult or another child) is sexual abuse. It causes physical and emotional pain. It has long-term effects on the child. And it is a crime. Recognizing childhood sexual abuse isn't easy. Children are often afraid and embarrassed to tell someone. Many times, the abuser is someone the child knows and trusts. This could be a family member or someone living in the child's home. It also can be a stranger.

Path to improved well being

You do not need to be overly suspicious of sexual abuse. The risk of childhood sexual abuse is low. A stable family home lowers a child's risk of sexual abuse. However, parents should always keep a watchful eye on any form of childhood abuse. These physical and behavioral signs should raise concern:

• When your child tells you he or she has been touched inappropriately or sexually.
• If your child is behaving sexually inappropriately around others (this includes touching others inappropriately).
• If your child uses sexually inappropriate language.
• If your child's knowledge of sex seems to be more than it should be at his or her age.
• If your child seems withdrawn and doesn't want to be hugged by some or all of his or her family members, family friends, teacher, or a particular person.
• If your child is suffering from depression or anxiety.
• If your child has harmed him- or herself.
• If your child is making comments about his or her low self-worth.
• Blood in a young child's underwear.
• When a young child is complaining of pain in their genital area.
• Injuries in your child's genital area, such as bruising, bleeding, or swelling. The injuries might cause your child pain when walking or sitting.
• Signs of infection in your child's urinary or genital area. This would include frequent burning, itching, or discharge.
• A pregnancy.
• Academic changes (falling grades, missing assignments, repeated absences).
• Regression in young children, such as wetting the bed or thumb sucking.
• If your child is acting overly concerned for a sibling.
• Changes in hygiene, such as refusing to take a bath (in younger children). Older children may shower more (to cleanse themselves of what they perceive as shame and embarrassment).
• Suddenly receiving gifts or money from a person in authority (a teacher, coach, etc.).

If you know your child has been sexually abused, report it to the police. Take your child to the doctor for an exam. Ask your child's doctor for the name of a counselor or psychologist. Talk to your local police about tracking sex offenders in your neighborhood or city.

Things to consider

Certain situations put children at a higher risk of sexual abuse. Your child may also be at higher risk if he or she:

• Lives in a home where the parents are divorced and/or living with stepparents.
• Living in a home without either parent (in foster care).
• Lives in a rural or low-income area.
• Has been a victim of another type of abuse, such as physical or emotional.
• Spends long periods of time alone with people in authority (teachers, clergymen, coaches, babysitters, etc.)

Girls and children with intellectual disabilities face a higher risk. Remember, childhood sexual abuse can occur between a male and female, as well as in same-sex situations.

Questions to ask your doctor

• What other things could explain injuries to my child's genitals?
• How young can a girl become pregnant?
• What are the signs of sexually transmitted diseases or infections in boys and girls?
• What is the treatment for sexually transmitted disease?
• Can my child eventually overcome the emotional pain of childhood sexual abuse?
• What physical or behavioral signs should I look for if I suspect my child is the one sexually abusing a child?
• How do I raise a concern with my child about possible sexual abuse?

Resources

National Institutes of Health, MedlinePlus: Sexual Abuse in Children – What to Know

Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network: Child Sexual Abuse

The U.S. Department of Justice National Sex Offender Public Website: How to Identify

Copyright © American Academy of Family Physicians

This information provides a general overview and may not apply to everyone. Talk to your family doctor to find out if this information applies to you and to get more information on this subject.

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